The Moving Beyond Support Circles for ThetaHealers who have been abused as children is still taking names and emails if you are interested in participating. More information is coming shortly. Contact me at email@example.com or my business partner, Leila Kubegusa at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Mark your calendars for Saturday, December 22nd, a full moon and my annual Solstice Party at my home. This is truly a fun, heartful and connecting time with a Manifestation exercise, drumming to the 5th plane Masters, review of the year, creating next year, healings, some digging, ‘white elephant’ gift exchange, potluck and door prizes.
Details coming next newsletter. This is an all day event you’ll really enjoy attending. It might be possible to do it online as well for parts of it.
Big changes in December coming. More announcements then.
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BLOG FOR THE SOUL
Quote for the Month: “The words we choose to use when we communicate with each other, carry vibrations…. The words we use are showing how we think and how we feel. The careful selection of words, helps to elevate our consciousness and resonate in higher frequencies.” ~Grigoris Deoudis
They seem to be the quotes of the year. I hear so many people say them. They are like the verbiage when a silence might have been more thoughtful, when a somatic relationship might have lent to truthfulness, and when emotional bypassing grabs the baton and runs without anyone stopping it.
But for my body, it has an interesting reaction to it. It recoils. It feels startled. It’s like living in a family with a pink elephant in the living room and no one claims it exists yet you’re staring at it. It’s like watching my life through my memories, and someone flat out says, “How could that ever happen? It just didn’t”.
One phrase is ‘Get over it!’
This can be extended to say:
Get over knowing the real truth.
(It’s disruptive to the societal dialogue.)
Get over healing.
(It’s taking too long.)
Get over grieving.
(It brings up too much for others…depressing to be around.)
Get over feeling.
(Stay on a straight line and pretend to be positive.)
Get over setting boundaries.
(Go with the flow. Loosen up. You’re too sensitive.)
Get over working to make a difference.
(Because the world isn’t worth it in all that is happening.)
Get over researching what is really happening.
(You’re just a conspiracy theorist wasting time with fake news.)
Get over it…get over it…and get over it all!
What a convenient way to dismiss and negate what is important in a person’s experience that helps them to grow, feel passionate, connects the dots and patterns, and stops the cycles of victimization. Ever happen to you? Do you say this to others or been on the receiving end?
But no one seems to says:
‘Get over staring at your text messages’. (At least I’ve never heard that one).
Or ‘Get over your son’s autism situation.’ (Ok, perhaps zdoggMD does.)
Or ‘Get over laughing at the comedian who is performing jokes about Muslim drone attacks. (That might be something to get over)
Or ‘Get over not receiving your retirement, social security, bonus, or what you already paid into’. (Hope that won’t become a trend of what is really deserved!)
And then there is a similar one that I hear others say to themselves. When this happens, I’m listening with all ears, and thinking, “I know this couldn’t be true.’
“I’m over it (Or I’m over this)!”
To me, this statement has been adapted to something it isn’t. To be over something, means it’s completed, that the experience or action has occurred. It’s the past tense.
But these days, it’s a way to vent frustration with no or little preparation for the actions needed to make it past tense.
“I’m over being taken advantage of.”
(When you can hear they haven’t a clue how to say ‘no’ to the other without feeling guilty.)
“I’m over the way s/he continually leaves me for another.”
(When being treated differently would require self respect, which isn’t being worked on.)
“I’m over hardly making it month to month.”
(When there are beliefs or memories about not deserving financial abundance which haven’t been cleared nor action taken to change things.)
“I’m over this politician.”
(When the person’s eyes are red with fire in seething about the person.)
These are not in the past. These are being experienced and felt in the present.
When we want to be understood, adding negation or sarcasm makes it difficult for another to have clarity or be present to what is being related. It’s the same when we do it to ourselves. It keeps us in denial and creates disconnection within.
When we learn to use our language in ways that support empathy, care, presence, openness, curiosity, wonder, and understanding, we are entering a state of connection.
If clarity, honesty, and emotional vulnerability is to happen in communication, we need to discover what our current feelings are in the present and admit what is true to ourselves. Then find the 'true' words that express our state in the moment. It's not always easy, but it's a great skill-building practice.
Being able to relate and connect with others more deeply through our words and expressions, can and will change our frequency and attract the kinds of relationships that many have longed for. It is a way to bring those virtues mentioned (above) into daily human interaction.
So as the world is going through its many changes, and people feel a growing sense of disconnection, remember that telling them to ‘get over it’, won’t help another’s situation; nor will telling another that you're over it’, help them to understand your experience in what is really going on... in not really being ‘over it’. With each little awareness, our words, our phrases, our experiences all have meaning. They also matter and count. They have frequency. They are vibrations.
With care and in gratefulness...Happy Holidays!
I extracted possible ‘theme’ beliefs from the story. Energy test yourself for them, practice clearing them through digging if applicable, and use Creator's teachings, including the ones below, if they fit.
I attempt to use phrases that minimize what I really want to say.
I use phrases to minimize what others say when they seem stuck, or different than how I would do things.
I have emotional expectations of how others need to move through situations in their life.
I trust myself to say what I mean clearly.
What I say has little meaning in how I express it to others.
Changing my expression of myself and others, changes my frequency.
Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it's possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):
To say what I mean and mean what I say
To know when I’m really over it
To be able to hear another without having expectations in when they need to be over in their situation
To let go of my expectations of how others need to move through situations in their life
To trust myself to use my words wisely in what is true for me
To use my words wisely in what is true for me
To use clarity and honesty to relate and connect with others
To use emotional vulnerability where the foundation for trust building skills has occurred
To appreciate the meaning and significance of how I express myself to others
To grow in frequency change by the ways I express myself inward and in the world
The Top 100 Positive Words by Frequency
“We have counted 12.17 million words in over 10,300 books, articles and news stories – all written in English. We have mainly used the British English spellings, but it should be similar for US or American English.”
Artist Uses Brainwaves To Manipulate Water – Incredible Display Of The Power Of Human Emotion
Artist Lisa Park has come up with an interesting new art form. “I started working with biosensors especially EEG headset, because I questioned, ‘how can I take this invisible energy and emotions and make it visible?'” Park told The Creators Project. “When I am feeling certain emotions (anger, sadness, happiness), I believe that what’s inside me, more than 60% of water in human body, will create vibrations/energy within myself. So, I wanted to create an artwork that represents the inner part of myself.”
Bosnian Pyramid complex is larger than the older, more mysterious pyramids in Egypt
This ancient pyramid in Bosnia is not just one but an entire complex of what appears to be eleven, possibly artificial structures: The Bosnian Pyramid of the Sun, the Bosnian Pyramid of the Moon, the Bosnian Pyramid of Love, the Bosnian Pyramid of the Dragon, the Temple of Mother Earth, Vratnica Tumulus, Dolovi Tumulus, Ginje Tumulus, KTK Tunnels, Underground Labyrinth “Ravne” and “Ravne 2” tunnels.
Smudging does a lot more than clear evil spirits
A new study published in the ‘Journal of Ethnopharmacology looked at the use of single and multi-ingredient herbal and non-herbal smudging remedies as they were administered across 50 different countries. Surprisingly, they found the use of smoke as a delivery system was more common than they had previously believed, largely used to address pulmonary, neurological and dermatological concerns. This medicinal use of smoke showed great promise and should be explored by those practicing modern medicine as a potential drug delivery system for many of today’s modern remedies.